Sunday, March 30, 2008
Saturday, March 29, 2008
So, I went to the website for the requirements to be a foster parent to see how this happened.
live in Anoka County
be at least 21-years-old, financially stable and responsible (but do not have to pay support)
have appropriate sleeping space (make own daughter sleep on couch when she visits)
There must be enough bedrooms for everyone.
Foster children can share a bedroom with a child of the same sex, if the room is large enough. (own child unable to share room with foster child)
They cannot share a bedroom with an adult or a child of the opposite sex.
complete an application for foster care
allow Anoka County to complete a criminal history background check on all household members who are 13-years-old or older
live in a home or apartment that meets fire safety code
abide by a “No Corporal Punishment” rule
be available to transport children to visitations and medical appointments
provide the County with three personal references
participate in a home study that includes interviews with all household members (tell own child it was there fault the first time they did not get a child because they were not there for interview(stepmother said))
attend on-going training (12 hours annually for each adult in the household)
be single or married
rent or own your home
already have children in your home (have own child just can not take care of)
work full- or part-time, depending on the foster child’s age and needs
Friday, March 28, 2008
I have decided to look at the school calender to see how many days my kids are home during the 180 day they are to be in school. not by me keeping them home but of school being either released early or no school at all. Calendered 1/2 days are 4 days for both. And none school days are 20 for Britt. And 21 for little man. Now this does not include day that the Basketball team goes to the state Tournament or days that are not on the calender. Now, I have learned that if my child is there for 1/2 the day it counts as a full day. Now to the school it was important to close for half the day this week so people could go watch Basketball. But, If I wanted to take my child out for a family vacation it would be considered an unexcused absence. HUH. Does this seem right. The biggest thing going for the school is Basketball. Do they have a drama club and arts programs? Heck, no. I shocked Britt's teacher last fall when I told him I could care less about her grade in Phy Ed.( He is the Basketball coach. LOL) I said as long as she participates that is all that matters to me. Because sports are not her strong point. And she needed academics for school. If the kids need to leave early for a sporting event they participate in the are free to go but it it has to do with anything other than sports you hear all about it. Blah!!!!!
I am shocked that the whole town does not shut down for sports. Really.
Now, my girlfriend and I are going to have a garage sale this spring and I told Britt to go through her clothing in her room. She brought me 3 I repeat 3 bags of clothes. Holy moly. Now I do not enter her room for stress reasons. I will blow the top off the house if I enter that room and she know this. There fore I made it her job to go through her clothing. Now I am on to little mans clothing. And then it is my dreaded closet. Now I have lost a lot of weigh. But I can not get rid of my so called fat clothes. I have a rational though why. Because if I were to gain weight back I will not have to but new clothing. Well, that is just not flying with the One handed wonder. I have begun to go through my stuff and have given some to a good friend that I know. She loves them all. Then, there is my array of Tee-shirts. Now I no longer hold a office job. So I were Tees to work all the time and Jeans. I love Jeans. I have to have at least 10-15 pairs of jeans and guess what I want more. LOL. then I am off to the One handed wonders clothing. Now he hates to admit that he has out grown pants but it is time to find out what fits and what does not fit. Wish me luck on this venture.
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Saturday, March 22, 2008
Here is Britt and Little man with our first find in Geocaching. She was the one who located it first.This is our second find. Hidden by our hopefully new friends Team Candy Cane. And here we are at the location of our First To Find. The blond boy is Britt's Friend David.
We call him friend she calls him Boyfriend. Yuck!!! Please I want my little girl back who loved to play with dolls and wants nothing to do with BOYS. YUCK!?! I know to young for a boy friend that should be a topic soon. But, needles to say we have him hooked on Geocaching to now.
Friday, March 21, 2008
Today we have around 10 that we are going to try and find since we all have the day off. And we are going to try for our first FTF. (first to find). We have others that may be joining us along the way.
Sunday, March 16, 2008
Saturday, March 15, 2008
Friday, March 14, 2008
This is money that you were not expecting to get? What would you do? Use your imagination.
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
A winner will be the one with the best name. Deadline is March 15th.
I have for the winner a Bathe treat. I will name the winner and they can contact me via my email with there mailing address.
Good luck and be creative.
Monday, March 10, 2008
Brittany went to spend her weekend with her father. And is feeling more and more reluctant to go again. She is having issues with the step mom. She was told she was there to entertain there Foster child, that kind of hit a cord with her. So, we will see if she will go when they call again.
Michael (AKA little man) kept his room clean all weekend. And had been begging me to get him fish for his small tank. So, I made a deal with him as long as his room stays clean he can have fish. But, when he does not clean up after him self is when I get to Flush them down the toilet. He agree. So, after work today I pick him up two Neon's and Two Glass Fish. He can not tear himself away from them.
There is your update.
Watch for contest coming soon.
Friday, March 7, 2008
I began with one that has done this job in that past and was looking for employment elsewhere. He was not very old and still worked hard and the pay desire was decent. After reviewing his application with my partner we decided that he was not suited for this job because we were worried that he might quit soon after hire due to his age and we did not know if he could handle our work load.
We thought we should maybe look in the assistance of some Headhunters. We stared with some online searches that really got us nowhere, so we decided we needed to meet face to face. We began with a rep. from small local place but found his prices for the type of help we were looking for were way out of our budget. Then, we decided to look at some more well known Headhunters. We started with the Menards Group. They are close to were the work will need to be done and the prices were in our range.
After, further review I decided to check out a few others before I made my final decision. My next interview was with the Sears Outlet people. They had what I was looking for and there prices were just what I could afford to pay. But, I could not make a decision with out checking out all my other options. My next stop was at Homedepot. Very nice but still out of my price range. The last place to check was Bestbuy. Wow, they had one potential employee that would have made my life so much easier. He could handle 25 bathe towels at a time. That is triple what my retiree could do. But the cost exceeded the means. (oh, this is a major want)
After, a phone conference with my partner we decided that Sears was the winner and that would be using them for my new hire. I went back told him he had the job and would be starting as soon as he got to his place of employment. Needles to say he has arrived and is working at a steady pace to get caught up with all the work the retiree failed to finish.
( I hope you enjoyed my animated tale about locating a New Washing Machine. I felt it would be more interesting to read a tale verses hey my washer crapped out and I had to buy a new one. )